My Three Rules Of Stuff

A while back I wrote a post about my tendencies to pack rat and hold on to things. Those traits were no doubt inherited from my depression-era parents. But here’s the thing, there’s a massive upside to these behaviors too, when exercised in balance. Some of the comments from that post alluded to this.

Take my lawnmower, it was originally my grandmother’s, from 1984.  Still works like a charm.  

How to do stuff

This Lawnmower Survived The Cold War
#SheWouldHaveCutNuclearGrass  #BackWhenAmericaMadeShit

My toaster?  Also from my grandma, circa late 1970s.  It still makes perfect toast and no it’s not a fire hazard.  I was using the plastic laundry basket from my grandma as well until it broke last year.  It was probably from the early 1970s.

You see, as a comment on that post from Tonya at Budget And The Beach says, one of the good traits I received from depression era parents is that they passed on to me how to value useful things, and the desire to milk as much life as I can from them.

Case in point.  When mp3 players first came out, being a huge music fan and guitar player, I wanted one really bad.  Being a stoic, I delayed that gratification for a few years, but in 2005 was ready to relent. 

One of the main choices back then was between models that used standard AA or AAA batteries, or ones that used a rechargeable battery internal to the player.

I was smart enough to know that internal rechargeable batteries continue to degrade at every charge and discharge cycle until they become useless.  And back then that often didn’t take too long.  So I went with one of the traditional battery models.  I figured, I have to pay for the batteries with this one, but the player should last way way longer.

Well, here’s my Creative mp3 player from the year 2005. 

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If It Gets Any Smaller You Risk Losing It

I still use this thing heavily today.  It still holds plenty of music, is way smaller than a smartphone, and it’s perfect for running and kayaking.  It barely weighs three ounces.  And it plays for hundreds of hours on a single tiny AAA battery. 

Oh, did I mention it also gets FM and AM radio?

Maybe you had a similar model back in 2005.  If it had a rechargeable battery though, I’m sure it died a long long time ago, and you had to purchase another.  And perhaps another after that, and another….

And this fits well with my strategy of owning mp3s vice streaming or paying to “lease” music.  With mp3s, you own your music and you can put it on any device that can play music.  Like a 13 year old mp3 player.  I still routinely load brand new music on my ancient player, and she keeps chugging along.

In no way am I claiming to be perfect in this practice. I’ve made my share of stupid purchases.  For a while in the late 2000s as digital camera technology kept advancing at light speed pace I kept buying the latest and greatest point and shoot camera.

I sold most of the old ones on Craigslist and recouped much of the costs, but it was a financially damaging habit just to get some extra megapixels and a few new features.  Lesson learned.

So in my journey to Financial Independence I’ve learned that for me there’s kind of three big rules about stuff.

 

Rule #1 – Try to buy as wisely as possible.  

There is a balance here in buying the cheapest versus getting quality.  This can be difficult.  You’re sometimes going on a hunch, but in today’s world with endless reviews on websites like Amazon it’s actually easier than ever.  My choice to get a AAA powered mp3 player is an example.  It was an informed choice and it turned out to be very wise indeed. 

More expensive things sometimes are higher quality, but very often they’re not.  I know many folks who brag about their $1200 MacBooks and how long they last, and I’m sure they do last long.  They are good products, I’m not denying that.

But I’m typing these very words from a $400 Toshiba laptop that I bought in 2011.  She’s seven years old, still works fine, and I paid one third of what others paid. (oh lord I’m going to start a windows vs apple holy war, and those are the deadliest of wars….)  

*I reserve the right to delete any windows vs apple bashing and trashing in the comments 🙂

 

Rule #2 – Take care of your stuff.

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The Orange Kayak On The Left Is Mine, 18 Years Old
#She’sStillSoYoung #WillLastForever #SaranacLakeIsTheBomb

This goes without saying.  Fix things if you can before automatically throwing them out and replacing them.  But also try to prevent them from breaking in the first place.

My 34 year old electric lawn mower is an example.  I sharpen the blade every year even though it’s not fully necessary.  Why?  A very sharp blade puts less resistance on the motor when it’s cutting grass.

And I never cut the grass when it’s wet as water and electric motors do not mix all that well.  These simple things that require virtually no effort have extended the life of this mower, and I should still have it for many years to come. 

I have, ahem, a few bikes.  If you ride a lot like me there are certain things you need to do to prevent things from breaking.  The most basic is to replace your chain when it’s worn.  A chain measuring tool costs very little.  If you ride with a worn chain, you’ll then ruin your cassette, your rear derailleur, and possibly even your front chain rings.

A $10 tool and a $15 chain every 3000-4000 miles prevents bigger problems and costs.  Bikes are special things, and should be taken care of.

 

Rule #3 –  Resist new models and use what you have until it dies.

Does what you have still work?  Good.  Keep using it.  Do you really need the new model with the Bluetooth capability?  (need, not want)  Then don’t get it.  There’s enough waste in the world.

Years ago at an office potluck I remember a co-worker bringing in a really nice crock pot full of his homemade chili.  At the end of the event he asked if anyone would like to keep the crock pot.  I asked him if there was anything wrong with it.  Nope.  “We just want to get a better one.” 

Now you could say he was being very generous to offer a free crock pot to someone, and that part is true.  But knowing the person as I did, I know that he and his wife are habitual lifestyle inflators.  That’s the kind of behavior that will hinder your path to financial independence, plain and simple. 

And oh yeah, even if you think something just stopped working and died, remember to revisit Rule #2 first.  You might fix it and learn a cool skill.

That’s my philosophy on buying stuff.  It’s pretty plain and straightforward.  I know there are many in the personal finance community who roll their eyes at stuff like this and are critics of anything frugal.  One of the goals of my blog is to detail how I got to financial independence at a young age, and these “rules of stuff” were an important part of that strategy.  My results speak for themselves.

Buy sparingly and wisely, take care of things and fix them, and use things until they die. That’s how I “do stuff”.

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I reached financial independence and semi-retired in my mid-40's through hard work, smart living, and investing. This blog chronicles my journey and explores many aspects of personal finance including the psychological and behavioral factors that drive our habits.

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54 Responses

  1. “Resist new models and use what you have until it dies.”
    Yes I do this a lot. I keep telling my husband that we shouldn’t have double of things. For some reason we have 3 can openers at home. One is ancient, one is modern, one is a modern take on an ancient/classic design. They were cheap ($5 garage sales) but it still drives me crazy on why we ever need 3!!! Who wants a free can opener??

    • Accidental FIRE says:

      Double things is not optimal, even can openers. In my misspent youth I used to have like 20 beer bottle openers. Priorities.

      • I love that you have that Toshiba laptop. I can so relate to THAT. My old Vaio is humming along 8 years on. I love that I could upgrade to a flash hard drive and bump up the RAM. Add Win10 and life is pretty good. At least, I can blog just fine with it.
        As far as mowers go, I’m pretty content with my $400 Toro e-Cycler. That beauty is so quiet, and fume-free, it’s like a walk in the park mowing the lawn. Crazy how the battery has lasted 8 years without degrading, unlike the Vaio’s.

        • Accidental FIRE says:

          Wow, very surprising that the Toro battery lasts that long, I wonder what special sauce they’re using in their rechargeable batteries? Most just fizzle out too quickly.

  2. I like it, AF. I have this conversation with my wife all the time. We are going to be moving in 14 months once my student loans are gone and she always gets hung up on house prices. Her assumption is that the more expensive house must be “better made” or have “higher finishes.” I always point out to her that if we buy the cheaper house, I can put some of those “higher finishes” in and come out paying less. (Not to speak about the fact that after six months that new house is going to feel the exact same to our starter house that we have lived in now for ten years).

    P.S. Completely agree on the computer front. I am writing from a $400 chromebook. Gets my blogging/website work done perfectly and costs a fraction of what other expensive laptops cost. (I am not so brave as to use names… I am sure lots of comments about graphic design, photo manipulation, etc are coming; but my chromebook battery lasts like 13 hours!)

    Good luck on your apple war!

    TPP

  3. What is this “stuff” you speak of? We don’t waste money on stuff lol… But wow a 34 year old lawn mower, that literally blows my mind… I guess that shows how much better the quality of things were back in the day (i know you maintain it very well).

    I do indulge in stuff sometimes, i just hardly ever have the urge to buy something i don’t need. Cheers!

    • Accidental FIRE says:

      The Black & Decker stuff when it was built in Baltimore was much higher quality than went they started making it in China. Like everything else, things are cheaper now but don’t last as long.

  4. Xrayvsn says:

    Great choice on the MP3 player. That was definitely forward thinking. I agree with you on maintenance stuff to increase an item’s longevity. People skip routine maintenance on their cars for example saving a few dollars here but end up getting more costly repairs down the road. It is important to distinguish quality versus name brand (which doesn’t necessarily mean increased quality) when looking at a more expensive item.

    • Accidental FIRE says:

      Yeah the car can add up for sure. They’re already money-buckets if you DO take care of them but if you don’t, yikes.

  5. Joe McKay says:

    Ha! I have the same MP3 player, it even went through the wash in the pocket of my running shorts and still works! Need versus want is an ongoing battle though. Great blog, keep it up!

  6. Ugh I bought an MP3 player not that long ago because my stupid iPhone doesn’t hold ANY songs anymore really because of storage issues, and it was so small I lost it. 🙁 I’m a use it until it dies kind of person too. My TV, which was free that someone gave to me, occasionally has this funky wide bar that goes down the middle of the screen, and I literally punch the screen until it goes away. I’m not ready to give up on it yet. I feel guilty of another electronic appliance wasting away somewhere. People who really love bikes REALLY love bikes and alway have multiple versions I’ve noticed! 🙂

  7. Rule #3 is basically gospel in our house. And the old lawnmower and toaster you have? I bow down to you, friend.

  8. Haha, i had a Creative mp3 player as well – loved it! I actually just sold it last year in a garage sale since I now just store the music on my phone.

    I’m also learning that another rule might be that you don’t always need the best of the best. For instance, I used to always buy the best smartphone… which also tended to be the most expensive smartphone. That was stupid. I now either buy one model older or look at other options.

    — Jim

    • Accidental FIRE says:

      Awesome, another Creative fan. The most I’ve ever paid for a smartphone is $100. I buy LG’s, they’re great!

  9. We have an 11 year old travel trailer that we bought used for $8000 and we chose NOT to get any of those slideouts. It reminds me a bit of your mp3 player with the separate batteries. We’ve seen people stuck at campgrounds, waiting for the repair person to arrive and fix their slideout so they can continue with their trip. Less to break. Gotta take care of your stuff if it’s an RV, definitely! They all leak somewhere, but if we are diligent, that trailer will look more like your mower as the years go by.

    • Accidental FIRE says:

      I don’t know much about those slideouts but sounds like it’s a case of “the extra add-on also causes tons of problems” That should be an addendum to my rule #3 I think.

  10. Doc G says:

    My wife is so great at this. She buys value, fixes, and than uses things for years. I’m not as great.

  11. Still rocking my iPhone 5s! I think #1 doesn’t get enough airtime. Buying the right thing in the first place can solve so many problems. I cringe back when I used to settle on stuff. Now I’m at a point, both maturity wise and money wise, where I can buy exactly what I want, and I actually spend LESS that way.

    • Accidental FIRE says:

      With soooo many reviews available nowadays online it’s easy than ever to make a wise choice up front. But also hard to avoid analysis-paralysis sometimes.

  12. MrWow says:

    Just replaced the tires on my bike… And have to true the wheel a little to prevent some rubbing against the frame and were good to go.

    We try to use things until they’re dead. Or at least we try. But I love your rules. Makes life easier to comprehend.

  13. Dr. McFrugal says:

    Love this post. All 3 rules are good for the environment too!
    Buying as wisely as possible is a good rule. Too many people buy cheap inferior products that break down after a few years (or less) which then leads to more junk in the landfill. But people buy things mindlessly because it’s “cheap” and “convenient” without paying mind to the true cost and how destructive it is to the environment and how detrimental it can be to their bottom line if they have to continuously have to replace their stuff. That’s how I feel about fast fashion. It’s terrible.
    Taking care of your stuff sounds like common sense, but not enough people do it. I think people are too lazy and they find it easier to throw stuff away.
    And resisting new models is something my wife and I do a lot. Advertising and marketing plays tricks on us into thinking that we need all this random crap. We don’t all that 🙂

    • Accidental FIRE says:

      Things today are mad to be more disposable, but they’re cheaper. That’s problematic for the environment for sure.

  14. i’ve never had an mp3 player or phone. i strongly agree about taking care of your stuff. i used to buy good sunglasses in my spendy days but when we started purging and selling last year i was getting more for these 90’s ray bans than i ever paid, way more, because i never lose them or damage them. we still use pyrex and tupperware containers from the 70’s or earlier. also, the less moving parts the better.

    • Accidental FIRE says:

      i’m the same with sunglasses – i would either lose them or smash them or sit on ’em. i never really bought expensive one, but i would churn through the cheapies pretty fast.

      pyrex from the 70’s – awesome. probably a groovy lime green 🙂

  15. Taking proper care of your stuff is so important.

    I live in Canada, so winters are quite challenging(!) here. About 4 years ago I bought a high quality pair of boots to wear during the winter. A couple times each season, I’ll wipe them down and give them a treatment with a waterproofing wax.

    I wear them daily during the winter and they still look great. 🙂

    I’m definitely aligned with you when it comes to picking and choosing what items you decide to shell out for.

    In my experience, both cheap and expensive t-shirts last a similar amount of time, so I opt for the wallet-friendly route. However, I’ll happily pay extra for a warm jacket which will last me 5-10 years.

    This comment ended up being much more about winter than I initially would have thought…

    • Accidental FIRE says:

      Cool, I waterproof and protect a lot of my outdoor stuff. Just did my patio umbrella again. It’s amazing how the UV rays from the sun can eat through fabric!

  16. BusyMom says:

    I have a 2010 laptop. Runs Linux, works perfectly fine!

    • Accidental FIRE says:

      Damn, yours is older!! Mine still has life left, maybe they can both make it 10 years 🙂

  17. Kit says:

    I really feel like 2 and 3 go together. I really like new stuff so I have to constantly resist the urge to splurge. I wanted to reemphasize (even if just for myself) that just because something breaks it isn’t dead. Repair parts from amazon or a local hardware store, some duct tape, or needle and thread can keep things going for years.

    My father-in-law has a backpack (daypack) that has lasted him 30+ years. He uses it all the time hiking and the seems, straps, and zippers have all been patched, repaired, or replaced and its still going strong. That is the level I want to get to.

    • Accidental FIRE says:

      Yes! I learned to sew (horriby, but functionally) by macguyver-sewing a couple old packs from the 1990’s. They’re still functional today. It may not look the best but it holds. No sewing machine, just needle and thread!

  18. I think the clear rockstar here is your grandma.. she really knew how to pick things that would last! 😉 totally agree here with all this and I’ve tried to do the same things, rarely buying anything brand new when I already have a working version of it. My computer is going on 6 years old now (HP) and still runs like a charm even though the external battery isn’t what it used to be.

  19. What??? Who just gives away a crockpot like that?!? I’m not rocking a toaster from my grandmother, but like much of the stuff in my kitchen (including my crockpot!), it came from the thrift store. And I know how much my mom paid for it, too, because it still says $5.99 in Sharpie on the plug! These are excellent rules and are ones I’m trying to take into account much more often than I used to. Better for my wallet, way better for the environment.

    • Accidental FIRE says:

      Cool, thrift store appliances, that’s a great strategy too. I’ve always been fortunate enough to get hand-me downs but that would be a great second choice if I needed something.

  20. Mrs Groovy says:

    I love your MP3 player! I never saw one so cute and small and YELLOW!

    We’re following your third rule with our 2004 Camry we purchased in 2008. At some point she (Lucy, we named her) will cost too much to repair so if we can get another year out of her we’ll be happy.

    • Accidental FIRE says:

      Those Camrys last forever. Don’t give up on Lucy yet. A nip here, a tuck there, she might just go longer than you think 😉

  21. It causes me physical and emotional pain to waste money on stuff. Buying quality stuff and taking good care of it is a great way avoid waste and build wealth.

  22. Hue from Denver, CO says:

    Your grandma’s lawnmower reminded me of my dad’s rice cooker. He gave it to me during my 2nd year (out of dorms and into off campus housing for 1st time) and thought it would be handy. It has now traveled to 3 different states and over the years, the paint is chipped, the glass lid cracked a bit, and the electrical cord was retaped. However, it still works like a charm when I crave for rice a couple of times a year. The benefits of good sentimental memoirs is priceless.

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