Things I Don’t Miss About Working Full Time

If you’re a new reader and not familiar with my backstory, in a nutshell I became financially independent in my mid-40’s and went down to 20 hours a week at my W2 job.  I now spend the newly freed half of my week living a more fulfilled life doing the things I want, whether they pay money or not. 

So that begs the question, what are the things I miss the least about working full time?  Well, here are the four biggest…

 

The Commute

Things I Don't Miss About Working Full Time

Ahhh… bikes

“Wait”, you’re thinking “I thought you commuted by bike and loved it? Were you lying to us?

No, I wasn’t lying and yes I commute by bike the two days a week that I go to work.  But here’s the thing, even though it’s way better, cheaper, safer, and healthier than driving, it’s still a bit boring and repetitive for me.

I’m a cyclist, not just a bike commuter.  I sometimes race both mountain bikes and road bikes.  I ride lots of miles to train, and lots just for fun.  So to keep it interesting and to keep the training beneficial it’s essential to mix things up.

Riding the same route four times a week is a bit boring.  If I had to go back to work 5 days a week I’m not sure I’d bike commute everyday.  I need a few rides during the week on my racing bike to get a harder workout in.  My commuter bike and the route I take to work don’t really allow for that.  Plus I have a heavy bag on my back. 

In the end my commute is still light years better than driving – better on my body, my net worth, and the planet. 

 

Being Forced To Do Things On Weekends

Things I Don't Miss About Working Full Time

Trying to get into Trader Joe’s on the weekend #totalshitshow

I hate crowds and I’m not the best at waiting in lines.  I rarely deal with those things anymore however.  With my new free time I’ve designed my life to take advantage of off-peak times.  That means for virtually everything – driving, hiking and cycling trails, grocery shopping, the library – life in general.

So I’ve really come to dislike the weekends.  Everyone’s out riding on the trails, paddling on the river, or at the stores.  It’s a royal shit-show.  I don’t know about you but I’m not a fan of shit-shows.

The obvious problem with this purposely timed lifestyle is that despite what it seems I’m still a social animal, and therefore to do cool activities with my friends who still work full time I often have to suck it up and do them on weekends.  

Trust me, there’s worse problems to have.

But in general one of the big things I don’t miss about being full time is being forced to put off things until the weekend.  I use my blessed weekdays off as much as possible and revel in it.

 

Waking Up To An Alarm 5 Days A Week

Things I Don't Miss About Working Full Time

Cool clock, but I still don’t want to wake up to it.

I don’t mind waking up to an alarm if it’s to do something I’m really jazzed about.  Like my big Sunday morning group bike ride, a day climbing at the crag, or a running race.  I do mind waking up to an alarm to go to work. 

I’ve cut that down from 5 days a week to 2, and it’s awesome!  In his best selling book “Why We Sleep”, (see my review here) Matthew Walker explains why alarms are an unfortunately necessary devil and why we humanoids evolved to fall asleep and wake up naturally with the sun and our circadian rhythms.

Ever since I read his book I’ve been working on various tips and tricks to improve my sleep.  Much of it has worked well, but some improvements are very difficult to implement with the way we live our modern lives.  The unfortunate reality is that so much of our modern culture revolves around sitting down and looking at screens, and those things don’t make getting in a good night sleep easy. 

But overall, the miserable mornings when the alarm goes off and I realize it’s a crappy work day have gone down from 5 a week to 2 for me, and I don’t miss the other three at all.

 

Managing Within A Large Bureaucracy

I posted before about how middle management sucks.  To be more accurate, I was really in “upper” middle management in my last job.  I was in charge of a lot of people and a lot of money.  In a typical 40 hour week, I’d estimate that 36 of those hours would be just dealing with unnecessary and over-burdensome bureaucracy. 

It’s the Federal Government, they can get away with it and not have to worry about going out of business.  They’re not in business

It’s not that I don’t want the responsibility, or that I shy away from hard things.  But if I’m going to take on big challenges like that I’m not going to do it while treading water in a sea of needless B.S. crap. 

I would gladly run a large organization and be in charge of a lot of money in a well operating company that lets me do my job and avoid unnecessary time wasters.  But that’s not how the chips fell for me.

I don’t miss it, at all. 

So there you have it readers, the things I miss least about working full time. 

Your turn – If you’re still working, do these resonate with you?  If you were able to retire or semi-retire what do you think you’d be most happy to stop doing? Chime in below!

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Dave @ Accidental FIRE

I reached financial independence and semi-retired in my mid-40's through hard work, smart living, and investing. This blog chronicles my journey and explores many aspects of personal finance including the psychological and behavioral factors that drive our habits.

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24 Responses

  1. xrayvsn says:

    I have just a small taste of this taking 1 day off a week. Whenever I do errands on that day off it is night and day difference as there is hardly any crowd, the lines are shorter, etc.

    I hate it when my day off happens to fall on a holiday because that benefit is completely erased and I totally get what you mean about weekends.

    It will also be great to travel on off-peak days as it will be less crowded and fares cheaper.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Yeah holidays are just as bad as weekends. “Everyone go to the store to get beer and food for the cookout!”

  2. How many of those 36 hours were used managing passwords and application logins? : ) I should do a similar time study and see how much of my time goes into “burdensome bureaucracy’. Healthcare has become laden with it and once of the reasons I started to burn out (I work on the finance side). I enjoy a lot of the technical work but some of our “process improvement” tools/initiatives really weigh things down. Speaking of work, I better get moving. Enjoy your 20 hours week, I will be there soon.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      HA!!! Best comment yet! TONS of those hours were spent on username/password BS. And being on the phone with our “helpless desk” as we call them trying to get the simplest issue resolved.

      Good luck getting there, the water is warm!

  3. Katie Camel says:

    Nice list! Overall, I like my job, but one of my biggest pet peeves is having someone, who has never spent one minute doing my job, deciding the “best” and “safest” ways in which to do my job. Yet when I question it or offer better solutions than the ones these “experts” have devised, I’m shot down. It makes no difference that the physicians I work with day in and day out agree with me – they apparently have no expertise either.

    I totally agree about liking the world so much more on weekdays, especially weekday mornings!

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Bosses who don’t know the job their “bossing” tend to be the worst. In that situation they need tons of humility and the ability to listen, but I’ve found most don’t practice that.

  4. I love that I can do things during the weekdays and especially the outdoor activities like hiking and mountain biking.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Nothin better than having the trails to yourself right? Just me, the wildlife, and some nice dirt to shred 🙂

  5. Ironically, I wrote a similar article shortly after I FIRE’d last year, spot on. Avoiding the weekend rush is still one of the things I savor most about RE. Amazing minds!

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Yeah it’s kinda natural that we’d both like that aspect. I mean, who wouldn’t like it?

  6. I’m with you. Commuting took the cake. It was such a waste of time. Yes, I took public transportation and read/listen to podcast. But still it was not fun. Driving was even worse. I couldn’t handle a traffic jam anymore. It drives me nuts.
    Doing errands on the weekdays is so much easier. It’s great.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      You’re so right Joe. And yet so many people purposely buy a home far away from where they work, then they complain about it. I just don’t get it.

  7. Tawcan says:

    Totally with you, I would love to not having to commute every day. 🙂

  8. i get that about being a cyclist and not just a bicycle commuter. someone asked me the other day what a real runner was and my answer was options made the difference. a real runner can add distance or some speed by choice in varying what they do, versus just being able to get from a to b and that’s it. i’m not there yet but i know you are there on the steed.

    my commute is very reasonable and the BS is way down the past couple of years. i’ve been on the other side of both of those and it just sucks. i have the good fortune of mrs. smidlap doing most of the public errand stuff. i don’t belong in public much.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      “i don’t belong in public much” You kill me man. Hilarious.

      You’ll be a real runner before you know it. Especially now that you found the treadmill that was betraying you. And run in public, the people might give you a pass…

  9. swissie3 says:

    On a good day I was spending 3 hours a day commuting. I would do P & R and read on the bus but it was still exhausting. Then, more and more, it was never a “good day” and it was moving up to as much as 4 hours a day commuting. I asked my boss about telecommuting occasionally and he said no (despite it being company policy) so in a fit of pique I handed in my notice on 1 October last year and retired early on 31 December. I lost a lot of money by going earlier than I had planned but in the end I have enough and love being retired and actually having time to myself.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Wow, what a great story and shows the real power of savings and FU money. So screw him. He should have let you telework and he obviously didn’t value you. But you had the real power 🙂

  10. It’s like, you read my mind with this post. Going through the same gyrations with work these days — too much “chaos management” vs. real value creation. Sinking millions on half-baked ideas and putting people on edge about their job security. Yeah, about ready to throw in that towel. Just one more bonus cycle??

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Chaos management describes it pretty well. At the government we don’t have people worried about job security, but we sink plenty of millions into half-baked ideas.

  11. Mr. Tako says:

    I’m with you Dave! I’m down to 0 days a week now, but I miss very little of it. The commute was definitely terrible, especially when it took longer than an hour a day. It felt like it was sucking my life away. I’m glad that’s all done!

    I also hated working on projects that I knew would be giant failures, but company leaders decided they needed to be done. Such a waste of time and energy! Now, I have the power to control what I work on and when. It’s a much more productive use of time and my ROI is about a million times better than most of the stuff I worked on.

    Office politics was another one I hated. Playing the political games were definitely not for me. The fact that the people who got promoted were the ones who played politics was always upsetting, but that’s just how “work” is I guess.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      The office politics at the Federal Government are ridiculous. Passive aggressiveness, power-plays… the worst of human personality traits are on display. And we also have lots of projects that are 100% doomed from the start. It is hard to work on them when you know it’s not going to work.

  12. Matt says:

    I like your list, grocery shopping at 9 am on a Monday is so much more civil than on a Saturday.

    The part I don’t miss currently being a home is the need to dress a certain way. I don’t go out of my way to look like I just crawled out of a sewer but having to dress up every day got a bit tiring. Especially, on days where there was no client meetings. Its a little thing but I definitely don’t miss it.

    Another one is being at the mercy of the company, that you had to come in every day so you could keep all the things you got but don’t have time to enjoy because you’re at work. 😛

    Do you still actively race?

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      I agree on the dressing up too, the government has an old-school stodgy culture. Lots of dudes still in suits etc. My last manager position was like that, and I hated that aspect too.

      And yes I ‘ideally’ still race but nothing is on this year yet. Cancellations in my area go through August. Right now there’s still some events scheduled in Sept and beyond that haven’t been canceled yet but who knows. It’s sad. I’m riding a ton during the pandemic and I feel my fitness is in the zone but I won’t know until I go head to head with others.

      Thanks for stopping by!

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