Is Your Mindset Holding You Back?

Is Your Mindset Holding You Back?On May 6th 1954 Roger Bannister ran a mile in 3 minutes 59.4 seconds.  The 4 minute mile, one of the biggest holy grails of athletic achievement that had been pursued since 1886, finally fell. 

For 68 years thousands of the best runners in the world pursued this magical mark.  All had failed. 

After Bannister defied the odds on a wet track that day some thought it might never be repeated.  However, just 46 days later John Landy of Australia bested Bannister’s time and brought it down to 3 minutes and 58 seconds. 

A year after that three runners broke the 4-minute mile in a single race!

So it took 68 years and thousands of the best runners in the world to finally do it, then a year later three people did it in a single race.  Did all of these runners suddenly become stronger physically, or undergo some mysterious genetic mutation? 

No.

What changed was in their mind.  Bannister showed them what could be done, that it wasn’t impossible. 

The brain has an amazing ability to control the body.  The science of placebos show this all the time.  It’s actually incredible, almost unbelievable. 

 

Half Empty

I’ll be honest, I haven’t always had the best mindset in life.  My family history and childhood seemed littered with misfortune and bad luck.  When I traveled to a third world country for the first time I got some perspective.  We’re all privileged in America. 

But that experience still didn’t help my confidence when it came to achievement.  All too often when faced with a tough challenge in life I’d see the glass as half empty.  “I doubt I could do that”, I would sometimes say when seeing someone else’s success. 

Is Your Mindset Holding You Back?It wasn’t until I became a runner myself did I fully understand the power the mind really has.  When I started doing long races like half and full marathons in my early 30’s it became clear. 

In every single race my body started shutting down with about two or three miles to go.  It was clear what was happening.  My brain knew there wasn’t much suffering left and was starting to tell my body “it’s almost over”.  Up until then while in the heart of the race the brain is digging in and telling the body “stay strong, don’t let up, we’re going to be here awhile”

That mindset in turn keeps the body going and producing the energy to complete the task.   But simply knowing the finish is near and the suffering is close to ending elicits a response in the body.  

I recently heard a podcast where a famous ultra runner put it a different way.  He said:

“Imagine you’re coming down the home stretch of a 100-mile run and you can barely make it.  You’re on fumes, and every step is agony.  You’re barely moving.  Then imagine someone released a bear from a cage behind you.  I guarantee you’ll start running, fast.  Much of that would be adrenaline, but that’s the point, it’s from the mind.  You think your muscles are maxed out and you have nothing left, but there’s actually more”.

So how to you tap into the power of a positive mindset to achieve a goal? 

Start reading about and getting inspired by those who have achieved what you want to do. 

Especially those who have faced similar circumstances to yours. 

Imagine the reaction of all those elite runners around the world when they heard the news of Bannister’s achievement in 1954.  There was probably a mixture of amazement and respect, but also jealousy. 

The moment those runners heard the news something clicked in their brain.  I have no idea how it works and science probably doesn’t either, but something changed for sure. 

For elite athletes competition no doubt plays a part.  But surely the news was also motivating and inspiring.  Bannister gave them hope.  And the next time they hit the track they went in with a different mindset.

 

Find Your Bannister

Do you doubt you can achieve financial independence?

…..with kids?  Lots of kids.

On teacher salaries?

Do you think it’s impossible to pay back $200,000 in student loans?

Don you think it’s impossible to live on less than 30,000 a year?  How about $10,000?

Can you rebound financially after spending time in prison?

All of these things are possible as the links clearly show.  They’ve been done.

 

One Part Of The Equation

Is Your Mindset Holding You Back?It’s not always the case that your mindset is solely holding you back though. Life is complex and any number of things could be preventing you from achieving a goal.  But don’t just accept limitations that you may think are in place. 

The 4 minute mile was possible, and so is financial independence.  Get inspired by those who’ve done it.

I’m no guru.  I’m not even close to having this figured out in life and still struggle with mindset all the time.  Sure I have achieved financial independence but there’s so much more I want to do. 

I want to scale my graphic arts business to something bigger but have a nagging voice that doubts.  And that’s despite the fact that I keep experiencing steady growth! 

It’s not like achieving my goal is the equivalent of the 4 minute mile in 1953, where no one has actually done it before.  There are tons of examples of people killing it with graphic design companies and freelancing. 

I just need to change my mindset.  So I’m on this journey with you. 

Let’s get inspired by those who are showing us what’s possible.  And let’s allow their achievements to change our mindset.

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Dave @ Accidental FIRE

I reached financial independence and semi-retired in my mid-40's through hard work, smart living, and investing. This blog chronicles my journey and explores many aspects of personal finance including the psychological and behavioral factors that drive our habits.

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28 Responses

  1. xrayvsn says:

    Inspiring post Dave. It is true that there is a mental hurdle each one of us has and when someone finally shows that it can be cleared it motivated you to accomplish things not thought possible

  2. Great post – my wife ran cross country in college and got me interested in running a few years back. Neither of us have ever done Ironman, but there is a video of Julie Moss in the 1982 Ironman where her body gives out on her right at the end. She wasn’t expected to win (no prior experience with Ironman). It is painful to watch, but she still has the drive to finish the race. Makes you wonder if her lack of experience with Ironman didn’t let her ‘mind set’ get in the way of performance. You have probably seen it but worth a look if you haven’t. Take care,

    Max

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      I do know that video and yeah, who knows what was going through her mind. But since then a lots of sports science has shown helpful ways to conquer things, all by using your mind

  3. You’re so right about the mindset. Before my body kept me from running, I experienced that point near the end of a long run where my mind was telling me we can’t do this. It’s a powerful thing. It happens in hot power yoga as well, even with the teachers encouraging us to not listen to those voices in our heads telling us we’re going to break. haha.

    That’s why I love interviewing people about overcoming adversity. Their stories inspire me to persevere when facing challenges, which in most cases are far less than what those I’ve interviewed faced.

    Thanks for the reminder!

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Great point Fred, and when it comes to overcoming adversity it’s harder to keep that good mindset because it takes a 24×7 effort. In a marathon you just have to have it for a few hours, but to overcome depression or addiction you have to keep it turned on.

  4. FI Introvert says:

    I read this example in David Goggins book. I’ve been working on “taking the governor off” as he puts it. I listened to him right up until the start of the Parkway Classic and ran the 10 miler two minutes faster than my marathon pace. After doing that, I started thinking if I can do this for 10 miles I can do it for ten more, then maybe I could do it the whole marathon…which would be a Boston qualifying time. That goal never even entered my mind until I started listening to/reading Goggins. I want to translate this into other parts of my life. Great example.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Ah, another Goggins fan!! I have yet to read his book yet but it’s in my queue. I’ve heard him on every podcast he’s done though, and that’s enough f-bombs to last a lifetime 🙂

      The guy is iron, and I like that term of taking the governor off. But it’s hard, as he well knows. Dude, if you get a Boston qualifier that’s some speedy running! I’m not that gifted of a runner and getting around 3:40 or so was the best I could do. Good luck with it!

      • FI Introvert says:

        I’d be happy with 3:40 this year. My best is 3:59. But the progress over the last year has made me think a Boston time is possible in the next 2-3 years. I was limiting myself and not training properly. I thought I was old and had knee problems and settled for finishing. Then set my sites on breaking four hours. Now I feel like that was thinking too small.

        • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

          Same thing happened to me – when I went for a sub-4 hour I got a 3:59. That taught me that it’s largely mental. But there’s limits of course. If I go for a 3:00 I know I can’t do a 2:59. But it’s fun to see how far you can push it.

  5. MillionaireBefore50 says:

    This is very true. Arnold Scwarzenegger once said that he visualizes his biceps to be the size and shape of mountain peaks while doing curls. This way, he can always squeeze an extra rep or two… For money nerds, we probably dont need to envision our nest egg to be the size of Fort Knox.. Maintaining a long term perspective, setting realistic and measurable goals, mental focus, and maybe a positive attitude is enough..lmao.

  6. that race i ran a few weeks ago was a benefit for cerebral palsy led by this young lady, lauren. http://www.makelemonaide.org/about-lauren

    it reminds me that large barriers are relative. her 4 minute mile was to live and then to walk. she was 14 oz. at birth but 17 years later was there for her foundation the whole day and handing out awards with a big smile. watch the “about lauren” video if you get a chance. she was just so cool and if you think you can’t do something look at what she was told she couldn’t but then went ahead and accomplished.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Wow, that girl is amazing! And no federal funding for cerebral palsy? Sounds like something needs to be done about that.

      That girl shows what can be done when a person sheds the victim mindset. She’s seen more adversity than most groups of people added up. Inspirational, thanks for posting!

      • yes, and she’s such a sweetheart. i only signed up 4-5 days before the event but i hope to keep it on my radar for next year and set up some fundraising a couple of months ahead.

  7. Jared says:

    I wish it were easier to tell that doubting and nagging voice to take a hike! And when it does take a hike it always comes back. Lol.

    Thanks for the reminder that we are capable of achieving our goals if we work hard and have a good attitude.

  8. After so many alpine objectives you look back and wonder, “how the heck did I just do that”. You did it because you told yourself you could. Great posts Dave, lets get everyone inspired to have the right mindset.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Very true when it comes to mountains. I’m still wondering how I did all those 14ers, but at the time I was as headstrong as you could get. It worked 🙂

  9. Katie Camel says:

    Aw, great post, Dave! Isn’t amazing what happens to your mindset when witnessing life in third world countries? We are definitely all privileged here in America.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Yep, after that El Salvador trip I’ve had the privilege (pun intended) of visiting over 40 countries in total, about 18-20 of them being 3rd world. Those barking about the difference of privilege within the USA have a serious “seeing the forest for the trees” problem.

  10. I ran 8 miles in one go once, and am still shocked how I did that.

    But I dunno dude, I always thought I could do anything I put my mind to. Except maybe be an NBA baller.

    I think it was because I had to try if I wanted to get anywhere. I don’t think I’ve ever experienced a failure that couldn’t be overcome in some way. And every time there was a small success, I got a boost of confidence. Then that stuff builds and compounds over time. Then you think you’re invincible 🙂

    Your Overconfident Friend,

    Luxe

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Now that’s a confident person – love it Luxe! I like the idea of “compounding confidence”, no index fund needed!

  11. Mister DS says:

    Inspiring! I feel like I’m at about mile 20 in my FI marathon. I want to get there so bad, but it still feels so far away. Being so close seems to make all the missed time with my kids and the work stress even harder to bear because I know I just need to keep the effort up a little while longer…

  12. This one is hard for me to relate to. I have a mild form of mitochondria disorder. Basically, I can’t run. My heart rate increases very quickly to maybe 180 and my body can’t sustain running. When I was a kid, I’d faint after about a lap.
    But I learn a similar lesson. I could walk and keep my heart rate at a lower level. Some hikes took me a very long time, but I can do it. Just have to put one food ahead of the other. Slow is fine as long as you make it there.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      You may not be able to relate to the running part Joe, but I guarantee you’ve had some good mindsets to do what you’ve done. Retire early, run a successful blog, awesome SAHD. Yeah, that takes a good mindset!

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