What I Spent In 2020

I’ve never had a budget.  Ever.  I’m not against them and I actually think they’re probably necessary for those who overspend or who have a bad relationship with debt and money. 

But I wasn’t one of those folks thankfully. 

If you’re not familiar with my story I reached financial independence in my mid 40’s “accidentally” by having a good relationship with money.  I had a strong desire to save which for good or for bad came from a scarcity mindset. 

Saving massively on the big three expenses in life and religiously stashing those savings in the stock market starting at an early age got me to financial independence.  It works, I can attest. 

Since I never had or needed a budget, I never tracked my spending.  Sure I’ve always had a rough idea of what I spent in a given year.  It’s not hard to just tally up my mortgage and other big bills like utilities and car insurance and get a rough number. 

But I never tracked things like eating out, entertainment, etc.  I just always mentally registered purchases and knew when to apply the brakes if I had been going overboard.  My system is about as loosey-goosey as you can get, but it worked for me.

Last week I saw my final utility bills from 2020 get posted and it occurred to me that I might have spent way less than average.  Once COVID got serious in late March my life like most was changed and my spending habits did as well. 

So for the first time ever I tallied them up and I’m gonna deliver the goods!

 

The Books

In 2020 I literally spent no cash.  Zero, none, not once.  Normally I spend very little cash as I put most things on my credit cards to max out my points.  But in 2020 I didn’t use cash once, not even before COVID started. 

Using my two credit cards I was able to pull annual reports and voila, there it is, all of my spending for the year.  The two reports use completely different formats and classify purchases differently.  So this report is not down to the gnats ass by category like a lot of bloggers do as I couldn’t classify everything properly.  But the overall total here is pretty darn accurate.

What I Spent In 2020

 

Grand Total – $34,763.  To be honest, it’s not that much lower than a normal year.  I probably come in between $38,000 – $45,000 most years.

That big “other” category is all the stuff that between the two credit card reports would take far too much time to sort out.  I ride bikes a lot, so bike tires, tubes, and replacement chains are in there. 

My charitable contributions are in there, and I need to do better on that front.  Medical copays, my Amazon Prime fee, blog hosting fees, my annual National Parks Pass and dues to the American Alpine Club are all in that category. 

And yes I bought one or two unnecessary items because I’m human.  My favorite purchase in that category was a new backpacking stove (<–affiliate link) as my old one is on the fritz.  Whatever the price says now I didn’t pay, camelcamelcamel helped me get it on sale at $32 with an email alert.

 

About That Health Insurance Bill…

The “big three” for most are housing, transportation, and food.  For me it’s housing, health insurance, and food as you can see above.

I semi-retired and went to 20 hours a week at my government job in 2017.  Part time status as a Federal employee allows me to keep my benefits, but contrary to popular opinion us Federal workers do not have the best benefits in the world. 

For full time Federal employees the government covers 72% of the cost of the healthcare plan, and the employee pays the remaining 28%.  Since I’m half-time I have to pay for half of the governments share, meaning another 36%.  So I’m now paying 64% of the cost of my plan, while Uncle Sam is picking up the remaining 36%. 

If $5,301 is 64% of the cost of my plan, that means it’s an $8,282 plan.  Granted, I could pay less on the ACA exchange if I just retired fully, but I’d get a massively crappier plan with a high deductible.  My plan with the government is pretty good with no deductible, and if I want to switch I have a lot to choose from.

 

Dave You’re A Gluttonous Pig

What I Spent In 2020

I ate these at almost every meal in 2020

Keen observers may look at my grocery total for the year and raise an eyebrow.  I spent $4,689 on food which comes to $391 a month.  For a single guy that might seem high.  My blogging buddy Mr. Tako for instance spent $425 for his family of 4 in December.  Granted, he said that he typically spends $500 but I’m barley more than $100 behind his normal, and he’s feeding four people.  What gives?

For another reference, Joe at Retire By 40 averaged $461 a month in 2020 for a family of three.

Regular readers might be saying “See, I knew it, Dave picks on Whole Foods but I bet he shops there because there’s no way he should be spending that much for one person.”  But regular readers should also know I rode my bikes 5,463 miles last year, ran 411 miles, and I workout a lot

The simple laws of energy require me to put those calories back in or I’d wilt away.  Yes it’s true, when you’re more active and workout a lot you can eat more.  Who knew?  This isn’t rocket surgery. 

Bottom line, I eat a lot.  When I’m really hitting the training hard in mid-season for cycling I’m probably going through 3500-4000 calories a day.  No, my metabolism isn’t naturally high, it’s quite the opposite.  I was obese in my 20’s, been there done that.  Not going back.  Health first, always. 

This Basal Metabolic Rate calculator claims a guy my size burns about 1,770 calories a day just existing.  Tack on a little movement (what most Americans get) and maybe I’d get to 2000 a day. 

I don’t count calories, but my guess is that I burn and eat an average of more like 3000 a day overall.  Those extra 1000 calories a day cost money, and are reflected in my grocery bill.

Please don’t think you can start a light or even moderate workout 2 or 3 times a week and then eat a ton more food.  It doesn’t work that way.  If you want to eat more you have to work out hard, pretty much every day.  With pain.  Lots of pain.  There are no shortcuts. 

But the reward of eating 3000 calories a day and not gaining weight is worth it 🙂

 

Tunage

Another thing I spend money on is music.  As I’ve blogged about before, I still buy .mp3’s because I want to have music to keep forever. 

Using a monthly subscription to Spotify for your music is okay until Spotify goes away one day, and they will.  After that you will have given them thousands of dollars and you’ll have no music to show for it.  It’s no different than leasing a car. 

But music doesn’t depreciate and eventually break like a car, once you buy it you have it forever.

I’m a music junkie so my music spending is not trivial (to me) but worth it.  In this case I did dig into my credit card and PayPal data to get a total.  Between Amazon, eMusic, and Bandcamp I spent $271.45 in 2020 on music

That’s $22.62 a month on average. 

This is more than normal for me, but as COVID dragged on and I kept reading about how devastating it’s been to artists and performers, I started to buy more of their stuff to support them. 

Kathleen Edwards made her much celebrated comeback in 2020, have a listen and support her.

And Bandcamp quickly became my favorite because in March they started waiving their revenue share on the first Friday of every month to help artists and labels impacted by COVID.  Plus their site is elegant and fun to explore. 

So that’s it folks, my first ever spending report.  Will it also be my last? 

I have to admit once I had the idea to do this post I was kind of excited to see what the final number would be.  Now the stupid type-A competitor in me has a warped desire to beat that number, because me.  Ugh. 

We’ll see 🙂

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I reached financial independence and semi-retired in my mid-40's through hard work, smart living, and investing. This blog chronicles my journey and explores many aspects of personal finance including the psychological and behavioral factors that drive our habits.

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38 Responses

  1. Xrayvsn says:

    I too do not budget because I still have a 50%+ savings rate because of the money coming in.

    I would hate to actually tally my expenses and put it out like you did because I know the numbers would be eye popping compared to yours (my monthly electricity bill for example last month was $475 although a lot of that is from charging the Tesla (which still saves me a lot in the long run since I used to spend over $50/wk in gas alone for my daily driver).

    Health insurance is what I’m worried about once I am out of the medical game.

  2. i know you saw our report. we no longer have a mortgage but our housing (mostly taxes/insurance/fees) are something like 5k/year. if you back out the difference from your costs i think we’re about in the same ballpark. I have a 15% mystery category called MB for mrs. smidlap’s credit card. i don’t have the details of her spending and have no idea what she bought. i only have the monthly payoff amounts and everyone seems happy. if i gave up wine i could live on about 3 bucks a day!

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      My alcohol costs are super low now, as compared to the drunken days of my misspent youth. I buy Aldi wine, we wouldn’t get along 🙂

  3. DenverOutdoorsGal says:

    I have the same loosey goosey budgeting system until Mint app came along to make it mindless to track. It is so nice because it gives me the immediate insights to generate better questions around my spending. One item that definitely went up since Mid-March 2020 was my water bill. Why I asked myself? Well, I was running the dishwasher more, flushing the toilets more, cleaning more, watering the garden more, and washing my MTB more (very important). Btw, I have same backpacking stove from 7 years ago. I wondered if they changed anything. Love that stove. You make a great point about the food spending and caloric intake due to exercise. My food budget didn’t change so I must ride my bike more this year, right?

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      We should form the “loosey goosey budgeters club”. Can’t wait to use my new stove, the thing is tiny and light, love it. And yes, riding more is always a “yes” in my world

      • DenverOutdoorsGal says:

        That’s a great idea. Bring your MSR PR stove next time you are out in CO and I will bring mine. We can then heat up hot cocoa by the lakeside and brainstorm ideas for our loosey goosey budgets club. 🙂 Example: I only have SUP, should I get a kayak? Sure, if it is within your budget? I think it is within the budget. LOL!

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Yes, it’s on your head. You might wanna get it off

      I bet you get sick of people using that phrase huh?

  4. I like your grocery bill explanation, and it’s so true. Lots of exercise means higher grocery bill, often significantly higher. There’s no way around it unless you get into super-unhealthy land like instant ramen or super boring like beans and rice every day. And after all, it’s your BODY, which isn’t the place to skimp. I’m all for getting the grocery bill under control by cutting out junk and lots of unnecessary splurges, but I just don’t believe it’s a category where it’s productive to get aggressive about saving every possible penny. I intentionally track ours only loosely, for that reason. It’s refreshing to see someone else on the same page.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Agreed, even that instant ramen stuff is unhealthy (depending on the brand). Lots of chemicals and processed crap. No bueno. You are spot on, anything that goes in my body is not something to be super aggressive about getting cheap, but thankfully simple ole vegetables and basics like sardines and salmon aren’t that expensive. Eating healthy isn’t hard, but takes discipline.

  5. Mike says:

    Typo – the govt is paying 36% of your health insurance.

  6. Every day I put in a big ride or a big hike (which is almost every other day) I like looking at my watch and seeing it show me 3000 calories. That translates into eating habit more aged cheddar that I love and baked goods. The benefits of working hard on the body. Well done on the spending and it feels nice when you total things up to make sure you are on the gameplan and it works out when you were merely on autopilot. As for me, I get too much fun out of tracking everything as I enjoy goals and targets.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      baked goods and aged cheddar… mmmm gotta g easy on that stuff but I love it. I’ll have to be careful about not getting addicted to tracking this stuff from now on

  7. veronica says:

    Thanks for introducing me to a Canadian artist that I didn’t know about. (The Crappy Tire reference gave it away immediately).

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Kathleen rocks, she has tons of great Canuck things in her songs like mentions of obscure hockey players and places.

  8. RE@54 says:

    Nice on the simple 2020 spending categories. Question, What about private investments? I understand if you are not putting 401k in your category since it is pretax, but you might add an investment line to track how much you put in there, if you invest privately.

    I am doing a monthly spending in the categories that you have, very general. This will be for the next three years before we retire. First time ever doing this. It is just to make sure no surprises before we hit retirement. I don’t itemize the credit card bill, just like you did. We know what we pay with credit card. For cash, I just add the amount I take out of the ATM.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      I didn’t total my non-401k investments, I could go back and look I guess, but not sure I count that as spending. I took my categories and simplicity from Mr. Tako at the link in the post to his monthly summary. I like things simple

  9. Mr. Fate says:

    Good stuff Dave. No budget here either. Also health insurance and food are our 2 biggest categories. That a lot of food, my man but I enjoyed the breakdown. It’ll be interesting to see how things shake out this year.

    As a fellow backpacker, you know I had to check out what you got. I love my MSR PR and you’ll dig yours. Also, thanks for supporting music by buying it, particularly Bandcamp where artists receive the most $.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Another happy MSR PR customer. My old stove lasted so long I never saw the need to get one but always wanted it. Plus I have an Esbit that I used for short warm weather overnighters that only require boiling water. As for Bandcamp – I love that site, so simple and easy to use and when you purchase it always goes smoothly.

  10. I was similar – for years I never tracked my spending because I knew I was easily saving at least 50% and had no particular goal for why to spend time on tracking. Once I got into FIRE, I wanted to know my annual spend for the 4% rule (or in my case 3% rule). As soon as I started tracking, I had this urge to keep trying to beat my prior year. I have had three years in a row of declining spending and 2021 will likely make it 4 years in a row but I suspect after covid is behind us, I will want to travel more to make up for lost time and that’s my part of my big three: housing, travel, food. (I am car-free so spend very little on transportation). My spending has been same ballpark as yours. I’m not at 391/a month for food but come close to 300/month despite being single, only 100 lbs, and rarely do takeout/restaurants. Farmers markets are my indulgence 🙂

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Travel would also probably be in my high three in a normal year. Let’s hope we can get back to that. And yes, farmers markets are pricey but you know what you’re getting and who it’s from.

  11. Steveark says:

    An unfortunate fact that defies thermodynamics is that as you age, regardless of how much you work out, you’ll have to cut way back on calories. My wife ran 15 miles Saturday at 66 years of age and hardly eats anything. I run and play competitive tennis and also eat sparingly. I can’t remember a time we each had a whole entree ti ourselves or a burger we didn’t split. 3,000 calories would blimp us out.

  12. Mr. Tako says:

    Thanks for the mentions Dave! Yep, as you saw we average around $500 per month on food. And we eat pretty fancy food too! Good proteins, and lots of vegetables though. Not a lot of packaged food.

    We do shop carefully, trying to minimize waste and utilize any sales, but we’re not hardcore coupon-ers or anything. If we feel like eating something, and the price is “reasonable” we just buy it.

    For example, the missus likes salmon. It’s usually a pretty expensive protein, but if the price is on-sale I’ll have her buy a few fillets to store in the freezer and eat over the next few weeks.

    In other words, we eat pretty much what we want (and as much as we want), but we set limits.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      I eat almost all “one-ingredient” foods. BTW Aldi has awesome wild-caught Salmon at a very reasonable price

  13. Fit by 40 says:

    Your annual spending looks good. The way you do it is easy. You can see what you spent without much effort.
    Many of our bills don’t accept credit cards. Well, the last time I checked was 3-4 years ago. It might have changed since then.
    Your bill is very reasonable for a single person living a comfortable life.

  14. Haley says:

    In early March 2020 I went to the ATM and took out like $300 in cash. We never carry much cash on hand–think like $20 each at any given time–but with the world falling into unknown chaos, we wanted more than usual “just in case”. Well, here we are almost a year later and still have half of that! All the spent cash has been given in extra tips to delivery drivers so maybe I’ll just give away the rest of it.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Cash is slowly becoming antiquated, and who knows what crypto will do to it going forward. We’re in the midst of changes

  15. Don’t feel bad about the food. I spend around $500 a month. I need to eat otherwise no training 7 days a week.

    It’s the price we pay.

    Cheers man

  16. Chris@TTL says:

    We’re with you. Our big three were the same—housing, healthcare, and food. Combined, they were a whopping 83% of our 2020 spending (at just under $41K). Healthcare alone for the two of us was 22% (!), more than double what we spent on food.

    I’m wondering how things will shake out if you leave your job entirely, and the same with Jenni—as you’re both working part-time still. She’s fully switched to ACA plan now, and despite the cost, it’s quite a poor comparison to the employer-sponsored plan she gave up.

    I’ve been fortunate to still be on a grandfathered pre-ACA individual plan that has a relatively low deductible and good coverage, but one day I’m sure it’ll disappear.

    And for food costs… I’m with you. Things were lower for us in 2020 due to the decreased activity from a combination of injuries and the pandemic, but we usually rip right through those calories and they’ve got to come from somewhere. Easily worth it.

    Your music expenses are supporting those artists more so than I think equivalent spending (and plays) of Spotify or the like would, so good on you—assuming you want to keep those artists around. We cheap out with a lot of YouTube, Pandora for music.

    Hope you do a repeat for 2021! 🙂

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Wow – 83% is a lot but that shows that your spending besides those things is minimal which is why you’re FI. The healthcare thing is still a mess but at least things are better than they were pre-ACA. The ACA was a slight improvement, but not nearly the solution we need. Here’s to a good ’21!

  17. Impersonal Finances says:

    I should probably take a closer look at my health care costs. I think they are relatively cheap but since they come out of my paycheck I don’t even give them a second thought (another reason for people to up those 401k percentages–you tend to learn to live off what you’re making!). All in all that’s a great accidental budget! I’m a single guy and outspend you on groceries, mostly thanks to at-home booze.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      You learn to live what you bring home – that’s one of the biggest truths in personal finance. And thankfully my booze budget these days is paltry when compared to my misspent youth.

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