Just Wing Your Way To Financial Independence

Just Wing Your Way To Financial IndependenceWe were lost.  Well, not entirely lost.  We were trying to get to the rental car return and departure gates at Luxembourg airport, and failing.  I say we weren’t entirely lost because we could see the airport.

“Dude”, I said to my buddy Brian who was driving, “There’s jetliners right there, we’ve got to be close”. 

As crazy and improbable as this situation sounds in the modern world of GPS and smartphones, it was all too common in 1997.  It was my first trip to Europe with my two best friends, and unfortunately we were trying to get to the airport to go home.  I say unfortunately because I didn’t want the trip to end.  For me it was a trip of a lifetime.  I’d never even flown on a commercial plane until just two years prior. 

As we were cruising down the road on what turned out to be the wrong side of the airport I noticed a sign.  “Cimetière Américain”.

“Hey guys I think we just passed an American World War II Cemetery, we have plenty of time, want to check it out?”

When we pulled into the cemetery it turned out to be where General George Patton was buried.  We were privileged to visit and pay tribute to General Patton and thousands of American World War II heroes.  It was totally unplanned and serendipitous and one of the highlights of the trip.

Actually our entire trip was unplanned.  We scored round trip tickets to Luxembourg and a car for dirt cheap (I’ve been doing this frugal stuff for a long time…), and we just went.  We had no itinerary, no hotel reservations, and no real agenda. 

“We’ll figure it out”, we thought.  We just wanted to go and see what happened. 

And every day, so many amazing things happened.  We stumbled upon Roman ruins and castles in Germany, and got into an intense dart competition with the locals at a bar in a tiny French town.  We met amazing people at hostels, and danced with retired folks in a Heidelberg square. 

For the next 10 to 15 years after that trip, besides purpose-focused vacations such as mountain climbing trips, I did almost all of my international travel by winging it. 

I went to Honduras, Costa Rica, Colombia, Scotland, Ireland, and about 15 other countries in Europe, all without as much as an idea of a plan.

Traveling in this manner is not for everyone, I get it.  When the sun is setting, you still can’t find a place to stay, and you barely speak the language, it can be stressful. But if you’re modestly intelligent and industrious, you’ll figure it out. 

 

Wing It FI

Just Wing Your Way To Financial IndependenceFinancial independence is very similar in this way.  Planning everything and mapping out a path down to the gnats ass might seem like a good idea.  It makes you feel like you’re taking control of the situation and being proactive.

But your plans will likely be thwarted.  Life is complicated.  Stuff happens. 

Big two week trips to Europe aren’t much different.  If you plan the entire trip down to the hour, the first missed train or flight delay will force you to start improvising and adjusting. 

I’m not arguing that you take the approach of my crazy travel years for your path to FI and totally wing it.  But to be honest, in my path to FI that’s kind of what I did. This blog is called Accidental Fire for a reason.   

I had no FI plan, I just consistently spent way less that I made and invested the difference.  Having a goal is different than having a plan.

I am suggesting, however, that you build the skills of improvisation and adjustment by not over-planning and by figuring out some things as you go along.  I sometimes see bloggers in the community who are in their 20’s and have a “plan to FIRE by 35”, complete with painstakingly thought out details. 

To be clear, I think their goal is awesome and an incredible thing to set out to do.  But I’d be hesitant to plan too much.  Sure, we’re all different and making a detailed plan might work for some folks and that’s great. 

But most people’s lives will likely be too complex and unpredictable to allow adherence to a detailed plan over a long period of time.  Especially someone in their 20’s who might still have marriage, kids, and numerous job changes in their future.

The energy might be better spent coming up with a rough plan and flexible goals, and thinking about what to do when things change. 

Or you can do what I did and just wing it. 

 

Skill-Building Through Improv

Just Wing Your Way To Financial IndependenceNow that I’m more than financially independent and semi-retired I can look back and appreciate the skills I built by learning and adapting as I went along.  I’m going to need those skills and more as I progress through the post-FI period of my life. 

The world is my oyster and I can pretty much do whatever I want.  As great as that sounds to those not fortunate enough to be in similar circumstances, it’s also kind of daunting. 

I will no doubt have to continue adapting to events and circumstances, and I dare not try to plan too much of it out. 

But that’s the fun of it right?  Stability and a safe path are good things, and part of me desires those things.  But another part of me likes the thought of not knowing what’s around the next corner of life. 

Your Turn – Do you have detailed plans for your path to FI, or are you showing up for improv night most of the time?

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Dave @ Accidental FIRE

I reached financial independence and semi-retired in my mid-40's through hard work, smart living, and investing. This blog chronicles my journey and explores many aspects of personal finance including the psychological and behavioral factors that drive our habits.

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29 Responses

  1. xrayvsn says:

    I agree that super detailed plans are the most likely to fail because life rarely follows your projections. A plan should be more generalized and give some goals to aim for. The truly happy and successful individuals are those that can adapt on the fly when things change and redirect themselves towards a generalized goal.

  2. I think it’s good to have a plan. Everything won’t work out, but you can make adjustments on the fly. Working on a detailed plan gives you something to do. At least you’re taking action. But winging it works very well too. You just need to stick to a few guidelines and you’ll reach financial independence later. Consistently spending less and investing the rest is one. We did that and it worked out pretty well.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      You make some good points about detailed plans Joe that I didn’t consider. Maybe just the process of going through one at least puts you in action mode and makes you consider alternatives. Great comment!

  3. A couple of totally different thing for me regarding this post. I admire that you can wing it with travel. I KNOW I have too much aniexty for that so I try to plan as much as I can ahead of time so if those one or two things go awry, I’m much better able to handle it. Plus I’m a female so maybe that has something to do with it? Safety first! I totally agree with you regarding FI Not that I’m actually doing either since I don’t have the income right now, but I think people in their late 20s or early 30s who thing life will go along smoothly could be in for a rough ride. It almost never does. Stuff like divorce, sickness, job changes, the market, etc., can all affect what might happen. Being prepared, but also open to change and shift is pretty key.

    • Katie Camel says:

      I agree about the safety part. As a female, I want to know I’m sleeping in a safe place. I also want to know I won’t have to spend more than I want by being in a desperate situation. Plus, with limited time I don’t want to waste precious time searching for a place to stay (been there, done that in the sub-zero temperatures in Amsterdam). But I’m flexible in other aspects of travel.

      But great points, Dave! We don’t always have to have every last detail planned because life will certainly derail at least some of those plans. Even though I’m planning to reach FI in 5-6 years, I realize we’re probably overdue for a major downturn in the economy that will likely alter those plans. I try not to focus on that inevitability too much because I know I’ll still work once I reach FI anyway. The younger ones aiming for FI and early retirement at 35 might want to reconsider what they’re willing to sacrifice to get to that goal, though. I don’t mean that in a negative way, but I think the race to FI is getting a little nuts lately.

      • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

        Yep, I definitely see some nuttiness out there. And as you point out we’re in a weird place now were we have to plan for a downturn that will come, but we have no idea when. Trying to time things is a fools game, so it’s a tough position to be in.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      I can see that perspective from women Tonya, I totally get it. For the most part I haven’t had any troubles in my travels but I have had a few small incidents that were dangerous and could have been worse if I was a woman

  4. I’m winging it as well, and am relying on my habits and putting money in strategic places so I can one day accidentally FI just like you. I don’t have specific money goals or do anything besides that. There’s a reason why I haven’t written about financial independence yet. Because I’m still deciding…

    I also get kinda concerned when really young people who’ve only worked one job decide to “opt out of the rat race”. It’s just not enough life experience to make a solid decision, you know? Sometimes you’re just in a bad job, and the answer is to find a new one that’s a better fit. And as someone who was once young and single and thought she knew everything, my life is very different now that I’m married and have someone else’s money habits to keep in mind. I could have never planned that my husband in his own words “eats like a raccoon going through your trash” haha.

    As for traveling, I love having a list of options to do just in case, but we generally are pretty flexible. I just don’t like to waste time looking up stuff to do!

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Great point about super young folks choosing to opt out. I agree that many just might need a career pivot, or a big change like going from white collar to blue collar or more of a trade job. So many people “loathe the cube”, and I think trade jobs are a good way to try something different.

      And I eat like a RABID raccoon going through the trash 😉

  5. General Patton’s grave, wow! He was known for emphasizing flexibility, improvisation, and adaptation on the battlefield. Deciding to explore a cemetery… now that’s YES, AND. There are a lot of lessons in that graveyard.

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Indeed there are Susan. I also went to Normandy on another trip and between the museums and cemeteries there you learn alot about what got us here and what bravery is.

  6. It has been a series of ups and downs with some really cool accomplishments along the way. The path to FI is one of finding out really is important to us, focus on that and get rid of the rest. Essentially like your trip it is having very little and picking the best option at the time within a narrow scope of time. Heck I absolutely did not have enough money when I pulled the pin on work, my stash is good but who knows if it will last me. That is the beauty of it and how it falls in line with your message here, I said screw it I want to experience life and I will wing it along the way in post-FIRE because I want to do it rather than think about it and plan it.

  7. Pete says:

    A bit of improv. Basically, we have the age of semi-retirement and retirement flexible which means there is no anxiety. Just save, save, save, keep working, and someday FI will be there.

  8. Sounds like a great trip! I had pretty detailed plans at one point early on, but pulled back as things progressed. The good part of planning was solidifying concepts and understanding. Once you get that confidence it can get you out of the spreadsheet.

    Max

  9. i went to rio with some friends in the late 90’s with no room reservations…and it was carnivale. we just took the bus down to the beach area and figured it out. it works well in life, so i agree with everything you wrote. we just keep the general direction correct and good things happened in finance and life.

  10. Alma says:

    I loved your article! Whether we admit it or not, life will throw us curveballs. I am also on FIRE and have a plan. Not really a detailed plan. More of a plan with an end in mind. I always say, we have to roll with the punches. Adapt, shrug your shoulders, smile and move on. You remind me of my father growing up. He would make no Reservations ever. All I would hear growing up is, “Let’s go!” It drove me crazy! I wanted a detailed plan weeks or months ahead. Years ahead somehow made me happiest. After all, isn’t planning half the fun!? Yet, I remember things always go wrong. I remember taking a guided group tour through Europe with my adult children. After the 10 days with the group, I decided we would spend alone time on our own. The trip ended in Rome, I was confident speaking the language. What could go wrong? It was funny how many surprises we had. At one point we walked into a hotel and were informed that we had NO Reservations and they could NOT put us up for the night. My kids were devastated. I explained to them that we were in a city with over 10,000 hotels. Surely, we would find something. And we did! All that crazy traveling with my dad had really paid off! That’s why I loved your article. I hadn’t quite put my finger on it. But, so true. Life really does surprise us every step we take. You are very wise. Thank you for you insightful article. I truly enjoyed it! 😉

    • Dave @ Accidental FIRE says:

      Funny about your Rome story. I was there with a girlfriend once and we had a helluva time finding a hotel. I said the same thing, “there’s a bajillion hotels here, no biggie, it’s ROME” It took a while, like hours of walking. It was a great, if not tense, way to see the city 🙂

  11. Mr. Tako says:

    That sounds like a fun vacation, but that much uncertainty isn’t for everyone. Try doing something like that with a spouse and two kids… it isn’t going to happen! 😉

    And that’s just a vacation. Imagine how difficult it would be to get “signoff” from your significant other on early retirement without a plan…

    I can hear the “What if’s…” already! 🙂

  12. bill says:

    Interesting. We seem to be kindred souls. Best trip ever to Europe for me was an almost completely unplanned month. We had an arrival date and place and a departure date and place.

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