Category: psychology

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Taking Cues From MySpace Tom

Here I am, slowly approaching 4 years of early semi-retirement.  It blows my mind.  I’ve never been a planner in life, especially long term.  After a less than desirable childhood and let’s just call it a slow start, I’ve basically...

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What Am I Running From?

Recently I spent a blissful weekend backpacking on the Appalachian Trail with an old friend.  We had perfect weather and the trip was more than just good for me, it was therapeutic.  I could feel the stress and anxiety leaving...

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Sacrifice Is Not A Dirty Word

She was deceptively beautiful, with the kind of stoic and determined demeanor that let you know she wasn’t playing games. When other students traded jokes or discussed movies during breaks, she read the next lessons material.  She rarely talked. Her...

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The Power Of Pessimism

Vice Admiral James Stockdale spent seven years of the Vietnam War being tortured in a Hanoi prison.  Author Jim Collins interviewed Stockdale for his book “Good To Great”, and Stockdale had some intriguing insight.  Collins asked him who didn’t make...

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Judging My Former Self

I’m going to tell you a story that I’m not too proud of.  A couple of years ago, probably around the time I started this blog, I was on a long bike ride.  One of my speedy fitness rides where...

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When Motivation Ends, Discipline Begins

Prior to the COVID-19 pandemic I mostly ran without music.  Quiet attunes you to your body, breathing, pace, and the surrounding environment.  And seemingly half of drivers out there are piloting their death boxes while playing on their cellphones, so...

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Comparison Is Good

“All right boys, are you ready?” he said confidently to us, with a determined smile.  I looked at my friend Brian, smiled, and said “ok I guess it’s game on with these guys”. We were on our bikes in a...

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